Friday, September 22, 2006

getting to horseneck

Here's a submission from Mom, sharing the wonderous tale of the preparations needed to get to Horseneck Beach each summer. A great companion piece to Tissy's memories of Mamie I.

Preparations for our annual trek to Aunt Mary’s seaside cottage usually began around early April. That’s when the backyard was fairly free of mud, and the laundry could once again, after the long New England winter, be hung on the clotheslines. The first step in the preparations was called the “airing.”

Remembering the exodus from the beach house the previous September, when everything was washed, folded, wrapped in tissue and then in old percale sheets, it seemed a waste of time to me to then, the next spring, remove everything from the old wicker hampers, unfold it, carry great baskets of linens down the treacherous attic stairs, trudge to the clothes yard, hang it all up with new, clean clothespins, air it, take down, fold it, wrap it in new tissue, and replace it in the hampers.

The answer, of course, was that Aunt Mary was a nurse, a pediatric nurse to boot, and could not tolerate the slightest hint of must or the tiniest speck of mildew. She herself was, despite being about 100 pounds overweight, impeccable, she smelled wonderful, like violet soap, or the lavender sachets she placed amongst the linens.

There were four large hampers. Aunt Mary’s domain was the west wall of our attic, and boxes, barrels, hampers, garment bags and galvanized trashcans went from wall to wall, floor to ceiling. That space, I figured, was almost as large as the entire beach house – so where did we put it all in those tiny rooms, in those magical months of summer?

Hamper #1 held sheets, pillowcases and cotton blankets. Hamper #2 was filled with beach towels, bathing caps, and assorted old bathing suits and shorts, plus gear for swimming, swim fins, and Noxzema, Unguentine, and Asorbine Jr. for sunburns. Hamper #3 produced all the table linens, placemats, napkins and silverware. Salt cellars and pepper shakers. Lots of paper bowls and plates for clambakes. Nutcrackers for lobsters and some wonderful cotton bibs, probably made by my mother, particularly for clam and lobster feasts. Hamper #4 was saved for Aunt Mary’s clothing, stuff she didn’t wear when ”on duty” as a nurse. There were striped seersucker dresses (voluminous, sewn by my mother); white duck hats, an assortment of sneakers and canvas beach shows; a large variety of aprons (also sewn by mother) – no one cooked or cleaned without an apron over their dress. There were also several windbreakers, khaki in color, for sitting on the beach. I never saw Aunt Mary wearing a sweater.

In the other barrels, crates, and boxes were footstuffs and canned goods, saved from the previous summer. There were ointments and shampoos, nail clippers, hair curlers, and bobby pins. Emergency medical kits with Band-Aids, gauze pads, adhesive tape, bug spray, spirits of ammonia, Pepto Bismol and Castoria (one of my favorites – what a lovely taste!). There was mint-flavored castor oil. There was Blue Gentian just in case someone got impetigo. Beached, as it were, and Aunt Mary without transportation once she arrived at the shore with her horde, we were a pharmaceutical phantasmagoria.

We. Her summer brood was composed of US – myself, my younger brother, and various assorted cousins. Occasionally the privileged children she nursed in Boston. More occasionally the underprivileged children she happened to come across in her nursing duties. Rarely, a child of one of my father’s farm hands. It was, I know now, an eclectic group. Adults were not the top priority, though Aunt Mary depended on them for transportation, weekend camaraderie, and fraternal sharing. Aunt was one of fifteen children, my father being a younger brother. She lived with our family, off and on, in between nursing stints, and therefore had the grand attic space, my mother as seamstress, and a ready-made brood of chicks to nurture every summer. Warm, gigantic, cozy, and meticulously demanding in her discipline; unmarried, childless, and needy of caretaking, she was our Mother Goose, our Camp Leader, our escape from the confines of the farm.

Word has it, my grandfather was a salesman for S. S. Pierce, that wonderful commissary of food in Boston. So it was natural that Aunt Mary would stock up for our summers at that very store. “Stock up” is a mild phrase. Around early June a truck would arrive with enough stuff to supply a restaurant. Cases and cases of tinned plums, peaches, pears, soups and bisques, jams and jellies and condiments. This supply, of course, would be a back-up in case of bad weather or no one arriving to drive us to the store. Otherwise, once we got to the beach house, there was a fishmonger, a bread man, and various family members who would trek down with hand baskets filled with fresh vegetables and fruits from the farm. My mother was also commissioned to, at least once a week, bake apple and blueberry pies, baking powder biscuits, and a wondrous assortment of cookies. Of course, Cushman’s Bakery might not get through to provide us with the needed cupcakes, jelly rolls, Danish pastries and coconut cakes that we required after a full day of swimming and playing.

Leaving the farm was the Caravan. My father’s Woodie beach wagon. My Uncle Luke’s truck. My Aunt Ruth’s coupe (which boasted a rumble seat, and was therefore not a great transport.) The morning of the leave was the most exciting part, with everyone lined up in front of our farmhouse and a posse of stalwarts to load all the vehicles.

There was always a bit of argument as to the route. If we went down the East Beach Road, we could stop on Route 6 for more supplies, and we would be able to smell the delectable honeysuckle that dripped over the roadside. If we went through Westport Point, we could stop at Lee’s and pick up a slab of fresh swordfish for our first supper. Going through Central Village afforded a stop at Perry’s Farm Stand where we might just find vegetables that we’d forgotten to bring. Whatever the chosen route, the Caravan left about 10 AM and arrived at the Beach House around noon, everything safe and sound, having been as meticulously packed as if by a professional mover, covered with canvas and roped down.

Then began the unpacking and settling, everyone choosing their pine bunk, racing around with boxes, peeking into all the cupboards to see if the same pink and white dishes were here, filling a dishpan with water and placing it on the porch to rinse off sandy feet after our first swim of the season. The red, yellow, and green wooden surfboards were deposited on the front porch. Foodstuffs were put in the beach closet to keep cool. Aunt Mary’s hampers were put in the back bedroom, which boasted bunk beds and gave plenty of storage space. She never slept there. There was never any room. To the best of my memory, she always slept on the living room couch, just at the bottom of the stairs leading to the second floor bedrooms. Perhaps she felt she could hear the children better that way.

Blue and yellow Fiesta bowls were placed on the mantel. In one went a supply of Teaberry, Juicy Fruit, and Wrigley’s Spearmint gum. In another went Hershey’s Kisses and Sugar Daddies. Those were considered forbidden. They were snacks for good children who did their morning chores.

So ends my little tale of getting to Horseneck Beach. May many other children be as fortunate as I to have as plump and wondrously disciplined auntie as Aunt Mamie I.

Saturday, September 02, 2006

mamie i in france

Here's a great letter that Mom submitted --

I discovered this letter while sorting through boxes of my Mother’s papers---(Winona Stevens Leonard). In light of the many young people being sent off to wars over the past ninety years, I thought this letter written to her sister Ruth Nye Leonard by my aunt Mary I Leonard was a meaningful memoir---a young farm girl who studied nursing and chose to go to France to serve her country. I couldn’t help but think of the nurses in MASH during the Korean war, their flirtations, their impromptu parties, their dedication and hard work in a field hospital.

Susan Leonard Loomis
Pembroke, Mass. August, 2006

France, Dec.1, 1918

Feel like a full fledged war nurse now..have found 5 cooties on me and have seen these huge rats..Boo!!

Dear Ruthie,

Am going to rub it in still not a word have I heard from you yet nor from mother. I have written you twice a week, have you received them?

Must tell you about our Thanksgiving party. It was so pretty, 150 officers and sisters attended with an eight course dinner from soup to nuts and plenty of liquids. I was accused of being a little tipsy but don’t worry, had two prim and proper old maids at my side. Am still on night duty so had to report immediately after one dance, which I had with Chan Lewis. You’ll be surprised when I tell you he is here as Captain of the Dental Corps. Isn’t it funny he should be in this same unit. He is most popular and quite good looking in his uniform. The first dance I went to I recognized his face but just couldn’t place him as I haven’t seen him since he was a barefoot boy in Long Plain, but he is a nice boy and a slicky dancer. Perhaps we didn’t show ‘em. We had a real jazz band and he does everything so we were quite the talk. Oh, such a good time as I had. Oh, Ruthie, these Englishmen! It’s worth your life to dance with them, not to mention dodging them in the hall…and the girls are awful. But I met one Padre who was a divine waltzer, ooh! La la! Chance for talk….

We all went to a dance given to us by the Machine Gun Officers. They sent a lorry for us and you could have seen these two or three dozen men assemble to boost me in. Much to their surprise I was quite light on my feet.

When we got there I waited until the last one to get out and without a bit of warning just opened my arms and said “Here I come!” There’s but one man left to tell the story. They don’t know what to make of me. I can jolly them off their feet. All of them dying to kid me about being fat and when I start it they are in their glory.

A Major Mac Kaye calls me “tiny”. At the dance I went around the hall once with him and when I saw two empty chairs I stopped and told him he was hopeless, he not only laughed but shrieked and admitted that I had a lot of courage to go that far.

As I wrote, I was going to have a dancing class—front liners have red ribbons, second have blue, third white. When he came up to have tea with me the other p.m. he had three bows of all three colors. He’s about forty but the best looking old sport. He’s been in the army for years and is a wonder at telling stories.

The first night I get off night duty we’re all going to the Du Lac for dinner where they have a piano. They all sing like birds and I can manage to bang it through, look forward to quite a grand party. I told them I didn’t drink or smoke and they’d have a miserable time, but I’d promise to see them home, probably lead them to Paris.
About Chan Lewis—Cybil is married and has two boys, lives in Melrose near her mother and Mildred is instructing at Sargents…call her up sometime and ask her over, perhaps Sally could run over and see her and visit her class. It is quite interesting. I used to go…Chan has been very nice to me, am going to the village to have tea with his Major and wife this week. Am having lots of fun, but the nursing isn’t very exciting. I got here just in time though to get some real war nursing. Most of the boys are sick now with the “flu” but very mild. I have some cute Yankee boys, one I tease awfully. Sewed up his trouser legs last night and the night before made him a French bed. I have two young Irishmen who are always doubly ready to help me, and you should hear the boys in their beds laugh, right in their glory when we are teasing someone, especially Yankees.

I have one devil who groans all the time, selfish, and doesn’t care who he wakes up. But believe me he got his last night. About 10 o’clock we threatened to put him out of doors and my word, I left the ward to go into the other to give some cough syrup, and upon returning those boys and orderly had him out of doors. Of course I never dreamed they would do such a thing. I made them bring him I, he hasn’t said BOO since. Everyone of them had their ammunitions ready to fire at him tonight---pillows flew in every direction. He makes a noise exactly like a dog and one of the boys who is wounded and can hardly move hollers out, “How much do they have to pay for your license?” and “Why didn’t the King let Kaiser Bill use him as a target?” Funny, you’d die at their expressions.

Write to me often, and when you get this read it to all as I can’t write everything two or three times.

I am fine, I hope everyone else is. Call Kittie up and give her my love, am going to write her a long letter very soon.

Wasn’t it awfully sad about Leita? I wish you would send Kittie some flowers for Christmas from us both or if not, then it is her anniversary Jan. 1st, just let her know I remembered it. Will write her so she will get it about then, poor old soul.

Hope to hear from you all real often, letters are better than food.

A Merry Xmas to all. Sorry I won’t be there. Don’t feel sorry for me ‘cause I am having it pretty soft, and heaps of fun.

Tell Sally and Al to write to me. BOOBS!!

…..Mary I.

Thursday, April 13, 2006

chester loomis on ebay

This little drawing by Chester Loomis was up for auction on ebay through a gallery in Connecticut.

Saturday, February 25, 2006

memories of mamie i

Tissy wrote this and sent it to me a few years back -- it never made it to the old website but here it be now.

Memories of Mamie I. and Horseneck Beach, circa 1948-1954

Mamie I. was our dear summer nanny -- Mary Isabelle Leonard -- a wonderful, round Auntie with blue and white seersucker dresses (probably made by Aunt Stevie), little canvas hats and white sneakers with her nylons knotted at the knees! To hell with the varicosities!

These are memories from numerous summers when she would take Tissy, Roozie, Susie, and Johnny down to the duplex for hours and days of excitement -- but never sisters and brothers together. Too much bickering!!! And of course she liked the boys best! I can remember at age 10 being made to strip on the side porch, cleaning our feet in the basin, and Mamie would pour water over us before we entered the house...humiliating at 10 for this little girl! She also made me wear just boy's pants down on the beach and water -- no halter! "Oh for heavens sakes, Tissy, you have nothing to show anyway!" But those were just the silly embarrassing memories; the most important part of our summer was going to Horsneck and being with family and friends, the Coopers -- teachers from Attleboro -- who rented the cottages. The kids were all about our ages -- Tykie, Ginny and Paul were my age. Tykie and I were great friends, and played paper dolls with old Sears catalogs. Each of us would choose a whole family of people and then cut out all kinds of clothes, shoes, etc. for each of them; then we would furnish their houses with the pages from the furniture and household section -- hours and hours of fun! Then, of course, we grew up and combed the beach for boys!

No one has had a shampoo until Mamie I. gives it to you! Water in your eyes, ears, lemon juice and pulp as a rinse, to make your hair shine. Then the drying was the best experience. She practically rubbed your hair off your head and then took the towel and cleaned your ears!

Packing up Mamie I. in May from Halcyon Farm, Lakeville, was wonderful fun for all of us kids. My Papa, Uncle Lukie, was the man in charge of packing -- he was a master at that. I have a picture of the truck backed right up to the front door, and trunk after trunk, basket after basket, being loaded and secured on the flat bed. Everything secured with clothesline! Wah-Wah and Raymond were there to help, too. Uncle Lukie was also the one who would rush down and pack Mamie up in a hurricane and bring her home.

No matter how old you were .... you must REST AFTER LUNCH! How I remember the heat in those front bedrooms...resting for one hour and sweating like a pig. We needed a swim after that, but not until 2:00 PM, and only when Mamie was sitting down on the beach in her canvas deck chair. "Only go out to you knees, or you will have to come in." Rules, of course, were most important so we would all be safe -- how in the world could Mamie have saved us?

Remember the Cushman truck? It backed up in the little driveway at the back of the cottage -- it was loaded with breads, and those wonderful filled cookies that were made with oatmeal and dates. I am sure the Cushman driver loved Mamie I.

What would we have done without her? It was such a special summer to go to Horseneck and we owned the place, we thought. The trip down was so picturesque, the excitement of driving by Lincoln Park, smelling the honeysuckle on the roadside all the way down. Delightful and delicious, and Mamie's food was beyond compare.

ostrander - loomis

The following information was posted on a genealogy site by Edith Stanton -- from this post I would guess she is a distant cousin. As you may remember from the Loomis genealogy, Welton Ostrander was the son of Lucy Elizabeth Hicks from her first marriage. Welton named his daughter after his mother.

Ostrander, Loomis & Co., 28 and 30 James St. Syracuse New York ...Welton Benz (Bens) Ostrander was my great-grandfather. His daughter was Lucy Loomis Ostrander. I had many stories but only knew that the company dealt with tea, coffee and spices. Welton's father died at age 30 and his mother remarried, Chauncy Chester Loomis. I heard that there was some insurance money which allowed them to start a country store on the Erie Canal. Welton was only about 5 years old at the time, but learned the business as he grew up and eventually became a partner. They began the coffee, tea and spice business when he was old enough to help run the business. They built it up to include horses and wagons for deliveries, teasels for the carding of wool, peach and apple orchards, willow trees to use for making baskets for the fruit, as well as a large warehouse for their products. He also had an interest in the Quaker Yeast Co. They had a coffee roasting plant as well. They did very well and were considered moderately rich. However, in the 1880's when Welton Bens Ostrander was in his 40's, he thought he had either tuberculosis or tea poisoning from his business, so he changed his plans. He sold the business to Col. O. V. Tracy and began a project for a ranch in Texas.... One time, an order was received from Syracuse, NY for 20 horses. Somehow the order was read as twenty carloads of horses. About 200 horses arrived in Syracuse and had to be herded through the streets to a corral. Apparently they were not trained horses and went quite wild after riding the train and arriving in a strange and noisy city....

Second: M. J. Myers, Cashier, State Bank of Syracuse, No.3 basement, Onondaga County Savings Bank building. My grandmother, Lucy Loomis Ostrander [Welton's daughter], married Matthew Jervis Myers, the son of this M.J. Myers. This M.J. Myers was Matthew Joseph Myers. (One story is that he and his wife took the train to the South early in the Civil War. The Bank had a branch down there and they withdrew their capital of GOLD and brought it back to Syracuse in little pockets attached to her hoop skirt. If this is true it must have been a great adventure.) This Matthew Joseph Myers was also connected to the first telephone company in Syracuse. His son, Matthew Jervis Myers, invented a patented "Break Finder" for the telephone lines. Welton Benz Ostrander hired him to come to Texas to his huge ranch project in order to find the breaks in their wire fences. Lucy Loomis Ostrander met him there (the story goes) and they were later married in Syracuse.

new home

This is the new home of the former homesickcure website. I'll be adding some of the contents of the site to this blog, and eventually the old site will fade off into the distance.

I'm sorting through papers and photographs at last, and will be sharing all kinds of fun stuff with you. I'll include goodies you've sent along, along with new research findings and a few moldy bits found at the bottom of boxes.

I thought you might enjoy seeing three view of the dunes of Nantucket, spanning over 120 years. The first picture shows Grandpa -- Charles Dana Loomis -- looking out to sea in 1887. The second image is the painting "Nantucket Dunes," by his father, Chester Loomis, presumably done on the same trip. The third shows the dunes as they look today. If you come and visit us, we'll take the ferry over to the island and experience the dunes firsthand.